Posted on December 2nd, 2024 By Isaiah Oderinde
It’s that time of year again. The leaves are changing colors, the air is cooling down, and pumpkin-spiced everything is back on the menu. For many, the fall and winter seasons bring the joys of […]
Read More.....Posted on July 5th, 2023 By Raffi Bilek
When service members return from duty, they often carry a lot more than what they began with. For many, the heavy burden of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) has a profound effect not only on the […]
Read More.....Posted on February 9th, 2023 By Raffi Bilek
Relationships are hard, there’s no doubt about it. Many people find themselves asking, “how do I know if a relationship is right for me?” Most adults have been through at least one relationship in their […]
Read More.....Posted on December 6th, 2022 By Raffi Bilek
If your partner is causing conflict and strain in your relationship, it might seem as if they need therapy to fix whatever’s going on for them so you can have the relationship you’re hoping for […]
Read More.....Posted on October 24th, 2022 By Raffi Bilek
In a recent post we opened up the topic of divorce and what some of the reasons might be to consider it. In this post we’ll consider what the consequences of divorce could be. As […]
Read More.....Posted on August 1st, 2022 By Raffi Bilek
Substance abuse is a major behavioral and mental health challenge for any person to face. And there is a whole separate set of challenges that their spouse or partner faces. People struggling with addiction need […]
Read More.....Posted on March 7th, 2022 By Raffi Bilek
Let’s take a look at the options in front of you for helping your depressed partner. Please remember, though, that you are not responsible for your partner’s mental illness, and you cannot make it go away. The best you can do is try to help. If things don’t get better, it’s not your fault. Like anything else in life, all you can do is try your best; you cannot make their problem go away by force of will, by nice gestures, or anything else.
Read More.....Posted on October 5th, 2021 By Raffi Bilek
When I bought my house, the previous owner had left behind a motley assortment of old household items – boxes of ancient textbooks, fireplace utensils, a poker table, and a 6-foot tall cast-iron fluoroscopy machine […]
Read More.....Posted on June 7th, 2021 By Raffi Bilek
Divorce stinks. Even when it’s the best option, it’s still a bad option. And this is doubly so when there are kids involved. (Actually, that’s probably an understatement. A divorce with no children is painful; […]
Read More.....Posted on September 2nd, 2020 By Amalia Philips
Our everyday way of living as we know it is disappearing. We are distracted and thus lose connection to others as well as to our own heart. Most of us were taught that busyness and […]
Read More.....Posted on March 26th, 2020 By Raffi Bilek
These are definitely challenging times. COVID-19 has us cooped up in a serious way, and many of us are dealing with any number of other problems, including employment, schooling, and possibly health. Your marriage is […]
Read More.....Posted on March 2nd, 2020 By Raffi Bilek
If you’re really old school, you may be thinking that the title of this post refers to the quaint, genuine, and meaningful “I love you.” If you’re a little more modern, perhaps you’ve heard that […]
Read More.....Posted on August 9th, 2018 By Raffi Bilek
It is generally accepted in today’s generation of parents that praise and encouragement are the tools of choice in childrearing rather than some past methods such as yelling, shaming, and, of course, whupping. Praise and […]
Read More.....Posted on June 25th, 2018 By Raffi Bilek
The end of a relationship is never easy, especially if you’ve been together for years. This is true even if you know the relationship was going sour, or was unhealthy to begin with. The truth […]
Read More.....Posted on April 10th, 2017 By Raffi Bilek
We’re taking a break from our regularly scheduled posts on the Five Love Languages to bring you this exclusive special in which I was invited to a local TV station to do a short bit […]
Read More.....Posted on January 24th, 2017 By Raffi Bilek
Words of Affirmation is the first of the love languages described in Gary Chapman’s Five Love Languages system. For people whose primary love language is Words of Affirmation, it’s what you say that counts. This […]
Read More.....Posted on June 16th, 2016 By Raffi Bilek
Bariatric surgery and self-esteem are obviously intricately intertwined with each other. Most people who suffer from obesity naturally struggle with their self-esteem, especially in a culture such as ours where beauty and thinness have been […]
Read More.....Posted on May 12th, 2016 By Raffi Bilek
Parents-in-law have been known to cause grief in many a marriage, but they can also be of tremendous help to it. In this article I touch on just a few important notes for how parents […]
Read More.....Posted on March 31st, 2016 By Raffi Bilek
It is not uncommon for us to field calls from people looking to get help for someone other than themselves. One common category of such callers is the family member of someone with borderline personality […]
Read More.....Posted on March 21st, 2016 By Raffi Bilek
So what’s the connection between bariatric surgery and therapy? If you’ve gotten the operation done or are considering it, you are probably aware that you have to do a psychological evaluation before going through with […]
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